Friday 29 March 2019





BeWell Edu
Draft Blog for Charity Helman
March 26, 2019
Author: Jason Rogers


I have to be honest, the thoughts of wellness at work haven’t always been at the forefront of my mind.  I actually remember being a young teacher who took tremendous pride in arriving at work so early that I needed to disarm the alarm and leaving only when the night caretakers were finishing their duties.  I remember looking back at it and thinking of this work ethic as (a) a necessity (b) an acceptable level of dedication (c) a badge of honour. I suppose in some respects, I was right on both fronts. I needed to work the long hours to hone my craft and be best prepared for my students and I am certain my colleagues and principals took note of my endless burning of the midnight oils.  However, as ‘right’ as I was, I had obviously overlooked a concerning blindspot, emotional wellness.

Things started to change for me when I stepped into a school leadership role.  All of a sudden, I was faced with difficult professional conversations on topics revolving around ‘workload,’ ‘stress’ and ‘work-life balance.’  It was in these early moments of leading that I started to realize that the ‘cost of caring’ in education often leaves the professionals on the front line depleted.

Years have passed since I started thinking about my own work and the early leadership interactions I had had with my colleagues.  Over this time, I believe I’ve learned a few things about myself and about the idea of wellness in education. The learnings on wellness, I believe, can be simply summed up in three words: Awareness, Agency and Connection.






Awareness:

The first step in addressing the chronic unwellness of myself and of many others in our profession is first understanding ourselves.  Looking back, it is easy to see where this understanding was absent when I thought it was a necessity to work 16 hours a day and how teachers may see the workload of a teacher to be unachievable.  I have found that through personal growth and learning to be the key in this area. Reading books and articles on topics such as positive psychology, emotional quotient and interpersonal coaching have helped me gain perspective and insights.  It is not to say that the cerebral approach is the right and only path. I believe that everybody can find their own way to understanding themselves in a pursuit of emotional awareness.

Agency:
It is my observation that until we have a good grasp on our own emotional wellbeing, we may not even know what to ask for.  A misunderstanding of one’s self may manifest in a feeling of ‘acceptable level of dedication’ or workplace stress. However, once we do know where we are, it becomes much easier to know what we can and should ask for.  A deep understanding of what we can ask for and having the opportunity and belief that we can ask for assistance is at the core of agency. In the spirit of awareness, it is important to recognize that teaching comes with many gravity problems (report cards, parent teacher interviews, lesson planning and marking), however with the assistance of others there are countless efficiencies and synergies that allow us to find the time and space to attend to our own needs as well as the needs of our community.  The strength and courage to ask for and accept help is a critical step in overcoming our individual and organizational wellness dilemmas.
 
Connection

In my mind, the final tenant in emotional wellness at school is connection. I have often thought about my ‘badge of honour’ that came with working to exhaustion or to the rallying call of ‘work life balance’ and reflect that these misconceptions often arise from a lack of connection.  When I say connection, I mean the obvious ‘connection to others’ but I am also alluding to ‘connection to the profession.’ Obviously, one aspect of workplace wellness is being connected, in a meaningful way, to each other, your students, the parents and the school leadership. Personal relationships are essential to a sense of meaning and wellbeing.  

The other aspect of connection which I think is essential is ‘connection to the profession.’  In saying this, I reject some of the binary thinking of ‘work-life balance’ as it seems like an either/or proposition, essentially  either you work less or your life is out of balance. If we shift our mindset to a more holistic conception of ‘work-life harmony’ we can start to better appreciate the ebbs and flows of our work and home life in an attempt to reconcile the positive and negative stress that is inevitable in all domains of our life.




By no stretch do I believe my personal, professional or leadership journey towards emotional wellbeing is complete.  I believe, with my whole being, that the journey is a daily and interconnected practice. Each and every day I need to take personal time to meditate, to rest, to reflect and to fill my personal wellness cup.  Furthermore, I need to spend time connecting with those whom I share my life with and work with, to truly empathize with their needs and, perhaps to bring some greater understanding and learning to their journey.






My Favorite Wellness Reads:

The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor
Big Potential by Shawn Achor
The 5AM Club by Robin Sharma
The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt
Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
Joyful by Ingrid Fetell Lee
168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam
When by Daniel H. Pink
The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
The Book of Joy by Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu
Rising Strong by Brene Brown


Head’s Up

The Cost of Caring

February 2019


Dear Rundle Community:


I don’t know, but if you are anything like me, this past week has been one of reflection and reminiscence. The week was bookended by news of loss in our community and by a night of wonderful celebration at the ‘Rundle Has Talent’ event at the elementary school.

In this month’s Head’s Up, I thought it may be appropriate to keep my updates to a simple narrative reflection. I hope some of the words resonate with you and your Rundle Experience.

Together,

Jason B. Rogers




“The Cost of Caring, 

the Paradox of Small, 

And

The Importance of a Connected Community”



Looking back a couple of years ago, I have a vivid memory of a conversation with a trusted friend who came in to assist our community during a time of loss.


The conversation went like this:


Me: “I have to admit, I’m really impacted by what’s gone on.”


Friend: “I can understand that, do you want to tell me more?”


Me: “I’m really feeling sad and have more questions than I have answers. I am finding it really hard to say goodbye; simply put, this has just been a really hard time.”


Friend: “Jason, do you mind if I share something that I think might help?”


Me: “Of course not.”


Friend: “When you are a part of a small and connected community like Rundle, the feelings you are having are ‘the cost of caring’.”


I have to admit, I have come back to this memory so many times this week and I am sure there are many in our community experiencing this deep sense of loss and the impact of ‘the cost of caring.’ Today, as much as it did years ago, this statement sticks with me and reminds me that in sadness and celebration, the ‘cost of caring’ is a risk I’m willing to take on.


Over the course of this past week, two other important points my friend made during our conversation have come to full light for me; these words are ‘small’ and ‘connected.’


First, let me share my meditation on the paradox of ‘Rundle small.’ One of the amazing characteristics about Rundle is the feeling of being small. From our classes that are smaller than 15 students to the small schools to the opportunities to be involved that come with small co-curricular offerings; everything about Rundle exudes the ethos of smallness. That being said, the feeling of ‘Rundle small’ is a true paradox. Rundle College Society is among the biggest private schools in Canada in many respects including school achievement, physical footprint, student population, and staff size. If you think of it, there are nearly 1100 students, which means, if you count staff, faculty, students, alumni, parents, siblings, etc. - our community is well beyond a population of 5000 people. This number, when put in the context of my home province, Saskatchewan, would be big enough to be considered one of the province’s top 15 sized cities. The true magic of ‘Rundle small’ is that we are close enough to all 5000 people in our community that we live a huge shared experience. With this breadth of impact, we can count on sharing the full extent of the human experience with each and every season.

The second thought is around the term ‘connected.’ I really love the notion of the in-person connection we can have as a result of our culture of caring and smallness. In a world that is consumed with digital connection, which is proving to be related to isolation and a host of emotional challenges, it is nice to know that we are in a community where we can genuinely be together during easy and hard times. Although it may be easier to be a digital arm’s length away, I encourage our community to continue to embrace the human side of connection. Rundle will always be a place where kindness counts, where we believe in best intentions and where we can come together to create a community that supports each other. The highlights of our days often come in those handshakes, hugs, hallway conversations, and handwritten notes.

To close this ‘Head’s Up,’ let me thank you for your support, for sharing in the cost of caring and for being a part of our small and connected community.



On the Shelf:


Head’s Up Podcast - Episode 60 - Primary Students Ask The Headmaster (literally anything)


If you are looking for a little levity, give a listen and hear how my conversation with 4 students from Rundle Primary went!


Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World by Cal Newport










Monday 28 January 2019

Head's Up - Your Monthly Update From The Headmaster
Dear Rundle Community:

It is hard to believe that we are at the midway point of the school year!  

This year we have seen extraordinary acts that exemplify our values: “Together: Be Kind, Be Curious, Be Well.”  In particular, I would like to thank our collective community for the support they have provided to those in need over the holiday season.  

In this month’s ‘Head’s Up’ I thought I might take an opportunity to look back and forward through some inspiring themes that have shone through in conversations we have had with our alumni over the past couple weeks.

Together,

Jason B. Rogers
Table of Contents:
I.      The Narrative – Part IV – “What I Learned at Rundle: Conversations with Alumni.”
II.     Summer Camps 
III.   Re-Registration Information
IV.   Good News Notes
V.     On The Shelf
I. The Narrative - Part IV - "What I Learned at Rundle: Conversations with Alumni"

Over the course of the last month, I have joined several other Rundle leaders in the opportunity to connect with our alumni in a variety of events and places. Since the middle of December, we have hosted a homecoming event here in Calgary, travelled to the University of British Columbia, spoke to alumni at the University of Calgary and had an alumni dinner in Kelowna at the University of British Columbia - Okanagan. The alumni stories and connections have been universally inspiring and heartwarming.

If it were possible to take these moments and distill them into three Rundle truths, here’s what I believe they would be.

 
Truth #1: ‘Together’ is not just a value at Rundle; it is a way of life.

Have you ever had a friend that you have not seen for a decade, and then you sit down with them and it feels like you have only spent days apart? I have witnessed this phenomenon take place countless times as our alumni come together. It is almost as though there is an invisible bond between alumni that allow them to start right where they left off… even if they left off many years ago. This has been the experience between alumni at each of the events we have hosted. This immediate and deep kinship is demonstrated through quick conversation, laughs and shared experiences. What is probably even more remarkable is that this instance does not just happen between classmates, it takes place across graduation years and friendship groups. We see the alumni network coming together to share experiences from their time at Rundle, share life successes and challenges, and share professional network opportunities.
 
Truth #2: Our alumni’s grades… are the least impressive thing about them.

One of the most fascinating things about chatting with our alumni is their response to the question, “What are you up to these days?”  Now, it would be easy for them to respond with “I practice law,” or “I am in my 3rd year of engineering,” or “I am currently performing in …,” but rarely is this the case. More often than not, the conversation about what they are up to gravitates to one of a couple topics: their family or giving back to our community. It is wonderful to hear that as our graduates move from our hallways into the real world, they take with them the elements of character that Rundle aspires to expose them to. Our alumni are giving back to their communities through service and knowledge sharing. In particular, I would like to thank our alumni for giving back to the many programs at Rundle that rely on their support. Without these acts of kindness, we would not be able to offer the multiple opportunities we do!
 
Truth #3: Teachers are the heart of Rundle.

As a teacher, there is no greater gift than to hear a former student say, “You made a difference in my life.”  At these alumni events, it is a clear theme that the teachers at Rundle are appreciated and loved by their former students. It is so common to see big hugs, laughs, and even tears of joy as alumni and teachers recount past experiences in the classroom. So often, you hear the statement, “Thank you - I can’t believe how prepared I was for university and the real world.” 

Thank you to our wonderful network of 1000+ alumni who continue to show us what it means to be ‘successful’ in our  world. This accomplished group reminds us that by continuing to come together we are able to celebrate the finest thing in life - connection.  

For those parents and students who are not yet a part of our alumni network, I can hardly wait to share this experience with you as you graduate from our program and go on to make a positive impact on our world.
II.  c.Lab Summer Camps

We are excited to offer another season of summer camps in 2019! Ms. Adolphe and the c.Lab/Jr. Cobras team will be opening registration for their SPORT & STEAM camps in early February.

Watch your email for the complete camp schedule including an early registration discount. It will be wonderful to see our students engaged in activities that stimulate their mind and exercise their bodies!
III.  Registration

Thank you to all parents who have already completed the reregistration process. If you have yet to let us know your intentions for the 2019-2020 school year, please do so prior to February 1st by following this link.
IV.  Good News Notes

Prior to the Christmas break, Ms. Corbett and some students from Rundle’s Conklin School signed up to volunteer for Toy Mountain at Salvation Army. When they arrived to organize the gifts for families in need, they were turned away, as the Salvation Army had run out of gifts and were not going to be able to meet all the requests they had received. 

What happened next is nothing short of amazing; in fact, it is a little bit of a Christmas miracle.

Ms. Corbett wrote a short email to the families of the kids who were going to volunteer and told them she was having to cancel the experience. From there, Rundle’s families and students stepped up and quietly demonstrated what it means to ‘Be kinder than necessary.” From here, I’ll let the pictures do the talking and simply say thank you to everybody in our community who made Christmas magical for so many in need in our city.
V. On The Shelf
 
Antifragile by Nassim Nicholas Taleb

The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt

Becoming by Michelle Obama

Dark Horse by Todd Rose and Ogi Ogas